What I’m Reading: Sarah Lacey’s Post About “Having It All”

I’ve been reading this article (found via) a few times over, as it’s been floating around Facebook and blogs this week, and I think it’s an important one for women to read. I still can’t wrap my head around it because as women, we often get caught up in juggling and multitasking and “having it all.” And, in fact, I think we try to do it all so well that a lot of the time, having it all seems really unattainable. Or, we lose sight of what of “it all” is really important to us as individuals instead of what the world thinks we should be focused on.

Lucky for me, I have a spectrum of interesting, intelligent, brave, strong, funny, beautiful, caring women in my life who are inspiring in the way they lead their own lives, full of unending support and encouragement, and each of them helps light a path toward my own happiness. Here’s to having it all (and having fun trying)!

20130306-100049.jpg

P.S. Now I really want to read Sheryl Sandberg’s new book Lean In.

Where’s Baxter?

My brother-in-law, Deputy T, sent me this awesome photo of a dog that reminded him of Baxter. (sorry, not sure of the source.)

meme

It was extraordinarily funny because what he didn’t know is that I had just purchased a cream-colored shag rug (this one, to be exact. and I swear the gradient shades of cream looks very subtle in person — not like the photos.) and Mumbles sent me this photo soon after he had laid out the rug. Baxter was apparently rolling all over it, going to town with what he’s deemed to be a long lost furry friend of his own.  Man, does he love this thing.  Can you spot our little guy?!

20130304-100021.jpg

Oh, Baxter.

Since BlogShop LA…

Remember how I told you that I was taking a Photoshop for bloggers course?  I did. It is called BlogShop. And it is fabulous.  You can see details from the days on Design Love Fest including all the goodies we were gifted and a lovely photo of our beautiful group of blogging creatives that gathered for the day to connect and learn and inspire each other.  I met some very talented ladies and learned a plethora of Photoshop tips and tricks (though I’m sure were still only scratching the surface of what it can actually do — and yet, I’m finding that what I can do impresses me the more I use it).  Also, immediately following BlogShop, I purchased a Bamboo Wacom tablet (after painstakingly obsessing over which model to get because the Intuos one for pros seemed like the way to go but I wasn’t sure if I’d love it so I actually opted for the most affordable one) which is a mouse replacement tablet and pen.  Life changing.  Seriously.  I love it and now using a mouse definitely feels like scratching with a claw.  Not fun.

All of this is to say that I’ve been very behind on blogging and writing lately and I’ve actually run out of posts because I have been so distracted playing around with photos.  So I thought it might be good to explain what I’ve been up to.  And now I need to get back to writing.  But, then again, this is all part of my “get better at things I like” plan, and a few days ago I even took an online Alt Summit class called “Growing Your Blog With Photography” led by the uber-talented Justin Hackworth.  You see, after delving into the world of Photoshop, I realized in order to get the most out of that, I need to be taking better photos.  It’s a vicious cycle, I tell ya.  However, I was reassured in the class that my iPhone can take perfectly fine photos, I simply need to get better at taking multiple shots from different angles to try to make the most of lighting and removing distractions from the background.  All good, practical tips.

So now all of that is to say that while I want to keep blogging as much as possible, I also want to keep getting better.  So, thanks for reading and commenting and tweeting and emailing.  I am so inspired and driven by your lovely notes of encouragement and I love hearing from you.  I am thankful for The Bachelor, as it gives me a reason to get together with my friends every Monday night and is a great writing exercise to keep me moving typing away. I love it.  Also, I have been obsessed with mood boards lately and will continue working on those because they are super fun and I’m pretty awesome at finding things online if I do say so myself (though, you can also ask around…I’m good).  If there’s anything you’d like to see in a roundup, do let me know!  And, in the meantime, enjoy this fun little montage I put together (in Photoshop — look at me!) using a photo from the day I first tried that awesome red lip stain:

Stick Girl JAM multi-color pout

P.S. That little happy dance from last week?  That’s all thanks to BlogShop LA too.  Yay!

A Story About Broccoli

I was making dinner the other night and giggled a little to myself as I cut up broccoli to add in some vegetable stir fry. I was recalling a story my mother and father have both shared with me on a few occasions, a story that makes them smile and laugh every time they remember it too. As it goes, when Grammy (my mom’s mom) married Papa (my mom’s dad) she had come from a very poor family and hadn’t been used to cooking with fresh vegetables. Knowing Papa liked broccoli, she prepared it one evening for dinner but not knowing the proper way to go about it, she’d cut off all of the flowering head and only cooked the stalks! There isn’t a whole lot more to that story other than the charm of knowing that detail and loving her all the more because of her gaffe. I think it’s just darling and though she’s not been with us since I was young, I know Grammy and I would be great friends today (our shared fondness for shoes, clothes and bags as evidence) and until we meet again, I have this story of a memory passed along from people I love, always with a smile.

20130131-090426.jpg

image via Whole Foods Market on Instagram.

My First Day

Today I start a new job and I’m thrilled.  Yay! Here’s to happy, new beginnings!  And now, please enjoy my happy dance. (I agree, it could use some work).
Stick Girl JAM Happy Dance

P.S.  Watching this, I’m having a Hermione Granger moment thinking “huh, is that really what my hair looks like from behind?”  Ugh.