I was just telling the story of meeting and falling in love with Mumbles to someone the other day when I recalled something that his aunt said to us once. She said “people are either a match or they aren’t – opposites may attract but they aren’t a match.”
At the time, this blew my mind. I’m pretty sure the rest of what she said was a very illuminating (albeit one-sided) conversation but I couldn’t get past it: match or no match. Match. No match. That’s it. So simple! I wondered if it was true.
Later, Mumbles and I had reflected on how quickly we each realized we would marry after we started dating. Call us crazy but it was within a month. Maybe less, but we’d even call that crazy so let’s just say it was a month. Can you believe that?! We were babies! But somehow we knew.
Do you agree that people are either a match or they aren’t? When did you know your partner was “The One?”
P.S. Mumbles and me circa 2004/2005. Babies!
In about a month, Mumbles is turning 30. I’m so excited to celebrate and I’ve been busy pinning to a secret Pinterest board for months, perusing the interwebs for gift ideas, decor and inspiration while simultaneously planning Declan’s 1st birthday party for two weeks later (ahhhh)! I decided that it’s now or never to pull off a “How I Met Your Mother” themed party since the show ended earlier this year — condolence high five. Originally I was thinking that the invitations (womp womp…read about that goof here and then give me another condolence high five) could ask guests to help “stock the bar” as gifts for his birthday but being that the the main setting of the show is inside a pub, you can bet that our new bar, Clyde, will be center stage at this shindig. Here he is, proudly showing off how handy he’s become:
Yesterday I just about had an anxiety attack in my office when realization washed over me that I’d made a really stupid mistake.
Do you make your bed? I most certainly do not. Mumbles and I always say that our marriage works because we’re equally messy and making the bed is something we definitely agree not to do. Though, he kicks the covers off and I love to curl up all cozy in them so sometimes we make the bed just so he can freshly throw his side of the covers onto me and I can snuggle up just so. Made for each other!
Anyway, it seems the making the bed issue has really struck a cord with lots of folks lately.
In the pro camp:
If you want to change the world, start by making your bed…one of 10 life lessons from Navy SEAL Admiral McRaven’s Amazing Commencement Speech
Make Your Bed! For Productivity, Profit and Peace
How Making Your Bed Every Morning Can Improve Your Life
Does it Really Matter if You Make Your Bed?
And only one lonely guy trying to convince everyone that making your bed is a waste of time:
Why You Should Never Make Your Bed
Will anyone stand in solidarity with me on the not making your bed front? Or, do I need to get my life together a little more and start making my bed every morning?
P.S. Secrets to a messy bed. I love it.
A few weeks ago, our talented friends Brandon + Kristin Kidd (maybe you remember them as our awesome wedding photographers??) took us on a little adventure to the Oak Canyon Nature Center (where they were married — such a neat venue!!) near our home (that we’re getting packed up to move out of this weekend — eek!) for a maternity session. Mumbles and I really wanted some photos to document this special time in our lives and it was made even more special having Brandon and Kristin there to share in the joy of yet another huge milestone for us — the anticipation of our first child. Even Baxter was included, which was awesome.
Here are a few of my favorite photos from the day (click on photo to enlarge for slideshow):
Thank you, Brandon + Kristin for blessing us with your talents and friendship! I sort of want to get prints of all of these and hang them up in our new house but a shrine to my pregnancy might be a little weird. Maybe I’ll just pick a select few, which will be hard. I adore all the black and white ones.
If you’re in the market for an incredible wedding photographer, Brandon Kidd Photography is always my first recommendation. Brandon and Kristin are simply delightful people and they do genius work behind the lens to truly capture photos that you’ll cherish forever.